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In Loving Memory

James Robert Hargrove

October 3, 1948 — January 14, 2024

"The measure of a life is not what you built — it's who you loved and how you showed it."

Biography

James Robert Hargrove was a builder — of structures, of businesses, and of people. Born in Charleston in 1948, he grew up in a modest home where hard work and kindness were the family currency. His mother called him her "steady one," a quality that would define him for the next seventy-five years.

After earning his engineering degree and serving two years in the Army Corps of Engineers, James returned to the Lowcountry and began a career that would span four decades. In 1985, he founded Hargrove & Associates, a structural engineering firm known throughout the region for integrity and craftsmanship. He mentored dozens of young engineers over the years, many of whom have gone on to lead firms of their own.

But ask anyone who knew him, and they will tell you about his woodworking. Every grandchild received a hand-crafted rocking chair when they were born — fourteen in all, each with their name carved into the back slat. The workshop behind the garage was his cathedral, a quiet place where sawdust and patience produced something that would last.

He is survived by his wife of fifty-two years, Eleanor; his daughter Sarah Lynn and her family; his son James Jr. and his family; and fourteen grandchildren who all own rocking chairs.

Life Timeline

1948

Born in Charleston, South Carolina to Margaret and William Hargrove.

1966

Graduated from James Island High School. First in the family to receive a college scholarship.

1970

Graduated from the University of South Carolina with a degree in Civil Engineering.

1972

Married Eleanor "Ellie" Mae Collins on a warm Saturday in April. They danced until midnight.

1975

Welcomed daughter, Sarah Lynn. He cried in the hospital parking lot.

1978

Welcomed son, James Robert Jr. Built him a treehouse that still stands today.

1985

Founded Hargrove & Associates, a small structural engineering firm in Mount Pleasant.

2004

Retired. Took up woodworking. Made a rocking chair for every grandchild.

2024

Passed peacefully at home, surrounded by four generations of family.

Details

Born
October 3, 1948
Passed
January 14, 2024
Hometown
Charleston, SC
Profession
Civil Engineer
Years lived
75

Service Information

Visitation

Friday, Jan 19 · 4–7 PM

McAlister-Smith Funeral Home

Funeral Service

Saturday, Jan 20 · 11 AM

First Presbyterian Church

Reception

Following the service at the family home

In His Memory

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to the Lowcountry Engineering Scholarship Fund.

Photo Gallery

Wedding day, April 1972

James Jr. and Sarah at the lake house, 1982

Retirement fishing trip, 2004

Christmas 2022, the whole family together

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SL

Sarah Lynn Hargrove-Pierce

January 16, 2024

Dad, you built everything — the house, the business, our family. But mostly you built us. We carry you with us every single day.

TR

Tom Radcliffe

January 17, 2024

James and I worked together for 22 years. He was the most honorable man I've ever known. He always put the people around him first.

EH

Ellie Hargrove

January 18, 2024

Fifty-two years wasn't nearly enough. But every single day was a gift. I'll love you until I see you again, James.

MC

Marcus Chen

January 19, 2024

Mr. H was my first real mentor. He took a chance on me right out of school. I owe so much of my career — and honestly my confidence — to him.

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